New article is up at Thought Catalog in which I explain how California thinks all the sex I have ever had has been rape.
Hint: it’s wasn’t, and California is fucking nuts.
Under the California standards of consent, it turns out that I have never even once had sex that was not legally rape. I have never asked for consent from a partner, nor has any partner ever asked for my consent, and I’m kind of glad, because “may I put my penis in your vagina now” is kind of a libido killer for me.
Lots of Love,