The rough and dirty story: on August 17th, at an Eminem concert held at Slane Castle in Ireland, in front of a huge crowd of people, a 17 year old girl willingly gave blowjobs to two different guys and was filmed in all her glory. She is now an impromptu pornstar all over social media.
First up, the age of consent in Ireland is 17, so everyone can fuck right off with all the “child-porn” bullshit. Attempting to cast some slutty 17 year old chick as the “victim” of child-pornographers really pisses me off wickedly.
There are REAL children being abused and filmed in utterly sickening ways, and all the “who can I blame because I’m a fucking whore” dance accomplishes is to dilute the true horror of what child pornography actually entails. The link below will take you to a report on the effect exposure to real child pornography has on investigators. It isn’t pretty.
“Employee was crying uncontrollably after viewing multiple images of child pornography the day he found out his wife was pregnant with their first child.”
“In general, everyone seems to be shocked and disgusted at what they have to view. This usually turns into anger at the suspect.”
You can bet your ass these officers aren’t crying uncontrollably at images of horny teenagers willingly engaging in public sexual activity.
Secondly, this girl is not being shamed for having sexual desire or for having sex. Willingly blowing some guy she may nor may not have known is NOT having sex. Oral sex may be a form of sexual activity, but it is NOT having sex. Sex is something two (or more – whatever turns your crank) people have together. Having sex is engaging in MUTUALLY pleasurable physical communion.
A culture that hates women for having sex is one that simply hates women.
Oh fuck off. If sex boils down to a dick in a hole, then rape is sex, right?
Bullshit. Whatever this girl was doing, it wasn’t “having sex”.
How fascinating, don’t you think, that most of the media is pixelating or editing out the girl’s image, but has absolutely no problem whatsoever showing the boy’s face? And then heaping abuse on HIM for his shameful crime of letting an eager woman wrap her mouth around his dick. Everyone is up in arms about the #slanegirl hastag and I have yet to hear fucking BOO about #slaneboy.
Sinéad Rose Lavery @rose_sinead 43m
‘Slaneboy’ deserves to be neutered, with no anaesthetic. #slaneboy
E K D @Leeds_Demon 1h
I wonder what #Slaneboy’s Mum hoped he would be when he grew up? A doctor. A plumber? A dentist? Or a disgusting little pervert?
Adam McGinty @DoctorAculaaaa 18 Aug
There’s no point giving #SlaneBoy abuse. He openly flung his cock around at a dogging session. He’s clearly too retarded to know he’s a dick
Loophole @AllTheBadMoves 4m
@langho @LiamGeraldShone I’m pretty sure #slaneboy would be considered a rapist.
What is up with all the reluctance to actually call out what happened? SlaneGirl degraded herself, humiliated herself, demonstrated zero self-esteem or self-respect and engaged in an utterly mortifying attempt to garner attention from the boys.
Well, she got attention, all right.
Let’s be clear: there is nothing inherently degrading or humiliating about oral sex. This whole conversation is NOT about sex. It’s about a young woman deliberately making herself powerless, behaving in a totally reckless way and doing so in an arena that was absolutely guaranteed to ensure infamy.
She embarrassed and shamed other women by her actions, and it is no surprise that it’s mostly other women calling out #slanegirl.
SlaneGirl has just contributed to a culture in which women are seen as powerless, without agency or responsibility, on their knees in service to men they may or may not even know. She has not just DILUTED the incredible power of intimate physical connections between men and women- she has DESTROYED it. Turned what should be an act of love and caring into something gross and ugly and foul.
And other women are rightfully furious at her.
Think about the reverse. Actually, don’t think about it: here’s an image of the reverse. Totally, 100% NOT SAFE FOR WORK.
This is every bit as disgusting and degrading and infuriating. Again, it’s not about sex. Is that his girlfriend? Does he know her? Who fucking cares? Grappling in the dirt outside the toilets in full view of other people is revolting.
The really, really, infuriating thing about the whole SlaneGirl debacle is that she is going to pay and pay and pay for this for a long time. Because that poor girl bought the lies. She bought the lie that blowing a couple of guys would make her cool and fun and interesting and empowered and that being a slut is just totally awesome.
Nobody hates SlaneGirl for having or wanting sex. Bullshit. They hate SlaneGirl for making sex worthless. The ability and desire to offer and receive sexual pleasure is one of women’s greatest powers, and always will be. Women are biologically designed to use sex to bond with another human being. Sex is inextricably linked with love and affection and caring and closeness.
And not just for women. For men, too.
SlaneGirl openly trashed one of the most human, loving activities, and in doing so, helped perpetuate the idea that relationships between men and women boil down to nothing but crass power relations. And then she put women in the losing position.
What did SlaneGirl get out of that whole horrible day? Besides two mouthfuls of cum? What in the name of god did she think she would gain from doing that? Who made her believe her place in life is on her knees sucking dick in front of an audience? Who made her hate herself so much? I actually feel sick with sorrow that such a young woman made such a public, awful mistake. I hope she can at least hold on to the knowledge that soon enough, there will be another young woman to replace her in the public imagination.
Another young woman who has bought all the same lies.
Is anyone the slightest bit surprised that SlaneGirl is now trying to turn her own epically stupid sluttiness into sexual assault? Pass the blame, honey. You give it a try.
“The teenager has not been medically fit enough to make a formal statement yet, but when that happens this could turn into a sexual assault investigation.”
What are we doing as a culture when young women actually, genuinely believe that blowjobs amount to sex and that their worth can be measured in oral technique? SlaneBoy doesn’t get a free pass here. He demonstrated zero respect for SlaneGirl, and he refused the opportunity to be the White Knight and save SlaneGirl from herself. And isn’t it just hilarious that Jezebel is the one to take SlaneBoy and everyone else to task for not white knighting the Princess?
Wouldn’t it be cool if we lived in a world where people took care of a their fellow humans in compromised states, rather than taking photos of them to post online?
Oh, I see. Now you WANT men to help you, do you?
But why WOULD he respect SlaneGirl, when she clearly has no respect for herself? Why SHOULD he be a saviour? Why should he care, one way or another?
The whole social contract is broken, smashed into smithereens. I seriously wonder if it can be repaired. One thing for certain is that the feminist media does not WANT it repaired. The more girls who sacrifice themselves willingly on the altar of sluthood, the better it is to rework society into a collective where meaningful relationships between men and women become all but impossible.
SlaneGirl should have spent more time listening to Eminem.
But I guess that’s just what sluts do, how could it ever be just us two
I’d never love you enough to trust you, we just met and I just fucked you…
On the one hand, I’m very sorry that SlaneGirl is the unwitting poster girl for why slut culture is actually devastating for women and not the tiniest bit empowering. But I’m also pleased to see so many women react with fury and push back against the idea that the proper place for them is on their knees.
Fuck you, sluts. I’m no stranger to spending time on my knees. For the man I love.
In the privacy of my own home.
Having sex used to be called “making love”. Because it is. Blowing a line of guys outside the toilets in full view of other people is not having sex.
It’s obliterating it.
And that is why SlaneGirl is being shamed.
Lots of love,